Last week 母亲节时，朋友 sent 了个sms 给我， 她说："you are a great mom, your daugther sure will appreciate it." 我不敢说自己是 a great mom, but I try my best to gave her what i had before. I had a great mom.
现在自己当妈妈了，回想起自己的成长经历，很感谢妈妈的教育方法．从小妈妈就没宠我们，但她给了我们很大的自由＆信任．记得小时候是个满kampung跑的丫头，抓鱼，放风筝，抓膀蟹，玩guli, gasing,.....再大些时，交朋友，学业，．．爸妈都不过问（很骄傲， 从小没让爸妈操心，除了进了2次hospital :P)
现在对Ricci还是寸步不离，真希望也可以给Ｒicci这样的自由．自我安慰说：多几年吧，毕竟她现在才４岁：Ｐ
说真， 我们都曾经年少过．想想教孩子最好的方式就是给于自由＆信任. The more you give, the more they will be great.
Another juice to add is show your love say I love you and big hug.
制造great child的formula (ic's 私人秘方；Ｐ）
Great Child = 自由+信任／支持+爱的表示-责骂-管制
Ricci-Mom's class room :P
Ricci can write the ABC very well. Know the colors and write the spelling too. But, that was learned from kindy, i just let her to practice :D
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